24 May 2015

Poem: Consequences

Consequences
21 May 2015
By Abby Weyr
Inspired by fan fic Fear by Virginia May

Problem
Analyze
Do this, this, and this or
Do that, that, and that or
Do this and that?
After analyze and plan
We think we know what will happen.
But do we?
Full consequences not revealed
Until decision made and acted on.
And then some consequences are
Immediate and some are
For the future to reveal.
Arrogant to think we know ahead.


Poem: Circles

Circles
Abby Weyr
24 May 2015

Surrounded by circles
Never touching
Never overlap
Different sizes
Different colors
Me alone in center
No one leaves their circle
Wish someone would
Join me and travel 
To more than just their circle.



This is how I am feeling this weekend attending BayCon.


13 March 2015

Ordaining Women

Lately I’ve been thinking that I must have lived something of a privileged life. There are two major controversies going on about women and I have not experienced any of what so many are saying is happening. The first issue is a secular one - the pay that I’ve gotten has been the same as men in the same position and same time in service. The jobs were just that way. That is not the topic of this post.

The other issue is church related as you can tell from the title. There seems to be a rising wave of women and men in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, LDS, that think that women should be ordained into the priesthood. The main complaint seems to be that the women are not being treated equally nor are they being listened to because they do not have the priesthood. They seem to think that being ordained will solve those issues.

Wake up folks. Being ordained will not make any difference to the men who hold the priesthood in listening to women or in treating them equally. Women changing their ordination status will not change the men’s behavior. The only thing that will change the men’s behavior and attitude is educating them and the upcoming generation to the role of women in Our Heavenly Father’s plan as equals to men. The priesthood leaders do need to be told how things are perceived and felt by some women. Their eyes need to be opened to a different point of view. I do not believe that Church leaders have overlooked some aspects on purpose to keep women in a lesser position. I do believe that they just didn’t think about some things and continued doing them the same as always. I never noticed that women didn’t offer prayers during General Conference until it was pointed out to me. I figure that the general authorities for whom English is second language felt the same way about English only prayers during General Conference.

When local priesthood leaders are not listening to the women leaders, then those men need to have their eyes and ears opened. Pray for their eyes to be opened and their ears to hear. Tell them that you think and feel you are being ignored. If that doesn’t work, then there is a chain of command to work through complaints. Work that chain of command. Each and every woman that is not listened to needs to work that chain of command to bring attention to that chain of command that there is an issue with one or more men. Work it up as far as you have to. Pray at each step. Yes, it will take time and effort. Eventually you will be heard and changes will be made – hopefully both by your prayers and the mundane administrative process – to have a change of attitude in the current leaders or to have a new leader with a more open mind.

The LDS church is a bureaucracy. It takes time for things to work through the system. It takes time for things to change. Deal with it. Work the system. Flood the system with complaints. Don’t try to openly disrupt it. That only makes some dig in the heels that much more. Priesthood holders are men for the most part trying their best to do God’s work here on earth. Some are going to have ancient thoughts and behaviours. Some are going to be more open. It may be partly local culture. It may be partly old fashion ideas still running around. It may be old wives tales that are still mistakenly believed.

I personally think that women have all the priesthood power and authority they need to do their work here on earth without being ordained. There are ordinances that require that ordained priesthood power. There are some that don’t, especially in a time of need. Think about the fact that men have to be ordained to enter the temple and women do not. Does that show that women are less?

There are separate but equal jobs that men and women have on earth. At times it may feel like women are considered less than men, but is that really true? Or is it that the men are being protective of women?  Some women may think that they don’t want or need protection. Well, deal with it. I think men are pretty much hard wired to act that way toward women in general and especially family. (Something that the Twilight Saga got right with how protective Edward was of Bella.) Women are equally protective of family and the more vulnerable in general and I think pretty much hard wired that way too. The image that comes to my mind is the father/husband outside the home protecting all within and the mother/wife ready to protect all within if needed. Equal but different roles.

So maybe women don’t need protection so much anymore. Women and men generally have equal opportunities in our modern world. Women and men are more equal now than in the past. Perhaps the men have not yet realized just how equal. Women need to learn and understand that men do not see things the same way as women, sometimes they don’t see at all. They do not think the same way as women, sometimes they don’t think. Patience and education is needed for men and women. Men are not mind readers and Heavenly Father isn’t going to tell them because women are very able to speak their own mind and heart.

I personally think there are still good reasons to have times and meetings with just your own gender. Husbands and wives will share what happens in the Relief Society and Priesthood meetings. Home teachers will share with the single sisters. All of the sessions from General Conference are published for all to read.

As stated at the beginning, I have not seen any of this first hand. The women leaders I’ve talked with have not experienced this with one exception. The exception was in dealing with a deaf brother in the ward some 30+ years ago with an older bishop and a sister that was doing the translation. Otherwise the priesthood leaders have asked for and gotten and accepted input from the women leaders in the wards that I’ve been in. There has been a wide range of ages in the priesthood leaders in the various wards that I’ve been in. That should not be taken to mean that I think that it is not happening.

I do not believe women need to be ordained to the priesthood to be heard. They do need priesthood leaders that are open and listen. Women do need to speak up and if a priesthood leader is ignoring them, then work the system. And everyone needs to pray.

My thanks to Nan, Christine, and Tiffany for our conversations that added to this post. 





12 February 2015

Name Change from SMD to FTF

It was recently announced that the name of the September festival in Forks Washington would be changed to Forever Twilight in Forks from Stephenie Meyer Day. I was and remain somewhat ambivalent about the change. I am writing this as a way to clarify my thoughts on this change.

2015 is the 9th year for the celebration of Twilight and the author, Stephenie Meyer, and the 10th anniversary of the publication of Twilight. This name change is an added controversy surrounding the celebration this year. Does this mean there will be a shift in the focus of the festival?Will we forget who wrote the story that made Forks a spot for fans to visit?

It has been Stephenie Meyer Day for 8 years. In those years, the remaining three (3) books of the Twilight Saga plus other related books have been published and five (5) movies based on the books have been made. Ms Meyer has also published the start of another series of books and started a film production company with one film released, Austenland from Fickle Fish Company.

In interviews that I’ve seen Ms Meyer appears composed but a little uncomfortable with all the attention from her stories. Several people that have had the pleasure of meeting her in person have used humble as an adjective for her. She was apparently not thrilled with the celebration being named for her from the beginning. It is even more understandable with the other series coming out and her production company.

There is tradition to keeping the name the same. People know it as Stephenie Meyer Day. I like tradition. But it can hold you back. Marketing and publicity will need to be done to get the new name out there and recognized by people use to Stephenie Meyer Day.

The new name does focus on her first series of books that take place in Forks. The Host series takes place in Arizona, so maybe this is a good change. But we also want to celebrate the author.

The date around Bella’s birthday was chosen for the celebration in Forks since Ms Meyer was born 24 Dec -- not the best time to visit Forks and not best time to have people leave home and family to come visit and celebrate a book and film series. Maybe with the name change there can be some leeway in the date. Maybe another city could host a celebration of Twilight over a weekend close to Bella’s birthday. Next year 13 Sep will be a Tuesday. One place could have a celebration the weekend before and another place the weekend after. This could be a nice happening. See my previous post on 22 January about dream 10th Anniversary celebration. Maybe happen next year? Dream on AW.

So maybe this new name of Forever Twilight in Forks is a good thing. I don’t like but have gotten use to the federal government combining President Lincoln’s and President Washington’s birthday holidays into one holiday. I figure I’ll eventually get use to the new name and people will forget it was ever anything else.

Links for Olympic Coven

Olympic Coven:

Alice Cullen:
Vee Elle as Alice Cullen

This is a link to a video diary from Vee Elle as Alice Cullen, episode 1
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QoKK9OKh6fk&feature=youtu.be

episode 2: 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W97TgPMe484&feature=youtu.be

Bella Swan:
Christilynn as Bella

Bella’s Closet

Bree Tanner:
Jacqueline as Bree

Carlisle Cullen:
Cay Percifield as Carlisle Cullen

Edward Cullen:
Alan as Edward

Emmett Cullen:
Travis as Emmett

Esme Cullen:
Tori Giles as Esme Cullen

Renesmee Cullen:
Samantha as Nessie

Rosalie Cullen:
Brynna as Rosalie

Doppelganger Cosplay

Updated 16 Feb with episode 2 of Alice diary to Bella





Links for Forever Twilight in Forks and Olympic Coven

The organizers of Forever Twilight in Forks have made arrangements for five (5) members of the Olympic Coven to appear at Forever Twilight in Forks (formerly known as Stephenie Meyer Day). There are fan started fundraising efforts to have three (3) other members and possibly an additional two (2) to attend as well. The five currently scheduled are Edward, Bella, Emmett, Rosalie, and Alice. Next three wanted are Carlise, Esme, and Victoria. The additional two are Nessie and Jacob. The actor portraying Jasper has separated from the OC.

This first link is to an Indiegogo campaign to get the next three to Forks :


This link is for a Teespring campaign, OC crest on front with Forks 2015 on the back :


Added 16 Feb: Win a dance with a Cullen details at 
http://olympiccovenfundraising.weebly.com/

This link is for the Stephenie Meyer Day/ OC designs on Redbubble – Tshirts, prints, cards, etc :


This is the link for the Facebook page for information on SMD/OC :



This is a link to the Facebook page for the Forks Chamber of Commerce open page on Forever Twilight in Forks :


The specific page with the schedule first released in February


The links for the web page of Forks Chamber of Commerce Forever Twilight in Forks schedule


and general announcement :


Other links
Twitter: forever_forks
Pinterest: forever_forks
Instagram: forevertwilightinforks
Tumblr: forevertwilightinforks.tumblr.com

Updated 16 Feb with Win a dance with a Cullen

02 February 2015

Poem: Charlie and Sue

Part of the Twilight Saga Couples Series

Charlie and Sue

Second Time Around
By Abby Weyr February 2015

Sue lost her husband
Suddenly
When both children became
Shape shifters.

Charlie helped her with arrangements,
Fixing things around the home
And unknowingly with two
Teenage shape shifters.

He gained a full time teenage daughter
For 20 months until she married so young.
Then he found out about the
Surrounding supernatural beings.

She helped him adjust to this
New knowledge.
She explained tribal history
The treaty with the Cold Ones.

They knew each other since childhood
First loves were with others
Now together they can be
Wolf Mom and Vampire Dad.

Love the second time around
Freely given binding together
Wolves and vampires as
Part of one extended family.






27 January 2015

Review and Report of Gatlinburg TN trip for Cullens' Winter Escape

There was a Twilight related event in Gatlinburg Tennessee advertised for 16 to 18 January 2015, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday – Cullens’ Winter Escape with a Christmas theme. The Olympic Coven was attending – the Cullens at least. Katie Quinn Thornton, who plays Victoria, came as an attendee, but was included in the OC group upon her arrival. It was good to see her. It was advertised as the last appearance for Josh Goff as Jasper Cullen. With the cancellation of the Olympic Coven in St Helens event, it was possibly the last event appearance of the Olympic Coven as well. I was able to attend through the generosity of a friend, Ronan.

The event was actually only half day Friday and full day Saturday instead of three days as advertised. If one read through the schedule one might have noticed no activities planned for Sunday and only half for Friday, but one might have thought that the schedule was still being finalized and Sunday would be announced. An extra night of motel room was booked. The price of the event was a bit much for half the time advertised. The extra time was well spent, but would have preferred to have saved the money.

The event motel was Brookside Resort, www.brooksideresort.com. All the rooms have a balcony and one can see and hear the brook. There is a fireplace in the rooms and the bathtub has spa jets – be prepared to have a very wet floor if use the spa feature. There is also a small kitchenette with microwave in the rooms. The event room was wonderfully decorated for Christmas. The food served in the event room was good and the service there excellent. There was a free breakfast available – three types of cereal, oatmeal with toppings, biscuits and gravy, bagels, Danish, English muffins, with jelly & cream cheese available and orange juice & milk to drink. I ate dry cereal until bought some yogurt from market across the street. The biscuits were really good. I should have gotten some cheese to have with them. 


Gatlinburg has a trolley system with about five routes – not all routes run year round. There is a stop in front of the resort. While we were there the Blue route that the resort is on ran about every 40 minutes. Some of the other routes have a shorter time. What the run time is during the summer, I do not know. Downtown Gatlinburg is a mini Vegas or Reno without the gambling, as is the main road through Pigeon Forge. Bright lights, this and that show, this and that exhibit, this and that souvenir shop. Thank goodness the surrounding area was pretty. The bare trees have their own beauty. No snow while we were there.

The welcome packets did not get to us and the TShirts were not delivered in time. The activities the group planned came off well. Rather than a gift exchange, if one wanted to participate you could bring a stocking and stuffers for everyone else. It turned out 55 people participated. The stockings were overflowing and there was not really room between the stockings to make sure the overflow did not get mixed up with neighbors. I heard reports that not everyone got total of 54 items. That may have been deliberate on the part of the givers or security was needed to insure items stayed in the stockings/overflow.

For Thursday arrivals there was a gathering at TGIF for dinner. The two waiters did a magnificent job of handling the impromptu large crowd. I arrived a little late with Kim Cruz, Christilynn Swan, and Vee Cullen. Vee’s flight had been delayed. That did give me some time to chat with Christilynn and then Kim and Vee as driving to Gatlinburg. I was in awe that I was riding with two members of the Olympic Coven. Christmas light decorations were still up as there is a Winter Festival ongoing for January. Never did a night picture of some of the lights. :-( 

Friday morning I ended up walking to the Walgreens to get a couple of items I forgot. Long walk and not flat. I walked by a sky lift that I was really tempted to do, but decided I wouldn’t be able to move out of the way of chair fast enough getting off. I did wait for the trolley to take me back. The Aquarium is the one point all routes have in common. I waited about 20 minutes for first trolley to continue its route and take me to the Aquarium. I then had another 30 minute wait for the blue route trolley. There is a nice visitor center next to the Aquarium ticket area. I spent the wait time enjoying looking at history of Gatlinburg through pictures and some artisans work on display.

The first scheduled event was a champagne reception Friday mid-afternoon. It was our first look at the wonderfully decorate event room. A Christmas tree with lights set up for us to decorate later. There was a table to place our ornament for the exchange later. There was a table with bubbly drinks – champagne and soda including the good Sweeps ginger ale. There were name tags up for each stocking hanger. There were vendor tables set up in front of windows for National Twilight Night and each Coven member to sell photographs and autograph them. I didn’t complete my personal assignment of printing out some of my pictures for them to sign. I did get their autographs at SMD 2014. The reception was a nice time to talk and meet people. I noticed that more people seemed to go introduce themselves than at the Stephenie Meyer Day celebration. The smaller group I think helps facilitate that along with the quieter room. 


The Friday evening dinner with a Cullen couple was too tightly scheduled. Time to gather up car pools and travel to restaurant was not allowed for. The dinners were signed up for before even leaving home. Jasper and Alice at the Alamo, where I went. Emmett and Rosalie at a BBQ place. Carlisle and Esme at a Mexican place. Edward and Bella at an Italian place. At least two places did not have room for the full number at one table. Everyone was seated close by though. 

The desert table when we got back was mouthwatering. Pecan pie, carrot cake, brownies, cakes and I can’t remember what all else. We decorated the Christmas tree. We had the ornament exchange and the ugly sweater contest. I picked an ornament from Salt Lake – salt crystals grown in shape of snow flake. Hope it arrives home in one piece. There were four finalists in the sweater contest. Then we voted with a dollar for favorite of the four until noon on Saturday. Alice was then to wear the winning one Saturday evening. 

Alice with the four finalists


There was a game of ‘gathering the witnesses’ for teams to work at. It was a scavenger hunt with a twist. I choose to sit this out as involved going outside and I was already starting to hurt from the long non-flat walk. It was a nice quiet time to talk with some others also sitting it out. There were a few people dancing while we waited for the teams to come back. There were questions so you not only had to gather the clues but answer the questions correctly. The teams all seemed to enjoy the romp. I enjoy the conversations.

National Twilight Night took over for some games. This lady was a little tired and sore and retired to my room. I am also not much of a party person especially if get rowdy and part of the crowd was already a little rowdy for me. I know I’m a stick in the mud. In the room I downloaded the pictures taken for the day. The internet connection wasn’t too bad most of the time. Facebook was a problem at times in not wanting to upload images.

It got really cold over night as there was frost everywhere and every morning you could see your breath. Saturday was shopping with Alice in the morning. We joined the group after getting another attendee a cane at Walgreens. She aggravated a fractured leg with a fall Friday evening. Another attendee offered to drive us down. Had a chance to chat with the driver while waiting for cane purchased. She did right well after that. We joined the rest of group at a nostalgic store. That was fun. One person caught me unawares of picture being taken. Someone else got a posed shot as arranging car pool to go downtown. I was called on to play photographer for some posed ones in a little red sleight with Alice, Jasper, Bella, and Edward. That was fun and enjoy sharing pictures.


After shopping and snow play time for some others, we had a catered lunch in the event room. It was a buffet potato and soup bar. Good selection of toppings. The chili was meat free and had rice. It was good, a bit different but good. There was a break for naps and getting ready for the big Christmas dinner.

Saturday evening was a buffet Christmas dinner - turkey, dressing, mashed potato, green beans, cranberry sauce, and desert. It was all good. Nice dinner conversation. Alice made her grand entrance with the winner of the ugly sweater contest. After dinner the stockings were passed out. There was one really impressive handmade gift – coasters of the book covers done by Alexia Rodriguez. There were lots of other neat things people made or wrapped pretty. I didn’t unwrap and look at most until Sunday. 
Alice wearing the winning ugly sweater
The tree was undecorated. There were posed pictures with the Cullen Family. The tables were all cleared off. Over flowing Stockings taken to rooms. After a little a break the Josh and Travis VIP Party Down South event started. Dancing and drinking and rowdy behavior. Josh and Travis each had come up with a special alcohol mixed drink. They were in containers like the lemonade and iced tea or punch containers on the other table. There was a nice selection of non-alcoholic drinks available – sparking ciders or sparkling non-alcoholic grape juice. The special drinks were not labeled alcoholic. From reports I heard, it is likely one attendee got very drunk on the alcoholic lemonade looking drink. I stayed for a while taking some pictures and talking to people. Conversation was more difficult with the loud music.

That is the end of the Cullens’ Winter Escape event. Sunday I got a roommate, Lyndy Sue Shields. We were going to hang out for rest of Sunday and Monday before taking me to airport Tuesday morning. We went for a drive on Sunday and met two other attendees at Golden Corral in Pigeon Forge. Good dinner and nice conversation. Monday I finished packing suitcase to ship home. Arrived with three and too many to handle. Stupid computer and stupid winter coat took up too much room. Only wore the coat once and only to say that I did – am kind of glad it was warm enough to just wear an additional layer with warm jacket.

We had lunner, midway between lunch and dinner, at Mellow Mushroom. Great pizza. Then we walked around the other half of downtown Gatlinburg in the evening. Found a suitable souvenir TShirt and we enjoyed the Hollywood car exhibit – Gibbs’ car out in front.


It was a great time. The Olympic Coven was fantastic as the Cullens and as themselves. I really enjoyed the time to visit with the ones I did. Also the chance to meet and talk with other fans was great. Big Thank you to the organizers! Best wishes and superior skill and cunning in your personal and professional lives to the cast members if this is the last time I get to see you. Thank you for all your work and bringing to life the book characters. It may seem strange to you because I don’t interact with the characters, but I really do enjoy your work. I’ve enjoyed the time to talk with some of you as yourselves. Wish had more time to talk with others. Tears come when words cannot adequately express the emotions. I need some tissues now.

Thank you to organizers, the cast, and other attendees for a wonderful time.








The Olympic Coven, Cosplayers

This is an expansion of what I posted on Facebook already. That started off as the final paragraph of my review and report on the Cullens’ Winter Escape event. The Olympic Coven (OC) deserves their own post on my blog. The OC is a group of actors that cosplay the characters from the Twilight Sage books. Cosplay with screen accurate costumes/hair and developing the character in ways to spontaneous interact with others of the group and the fans.

The book Twilight changed my life as it has for a lot of other people. The Olympic Coven has added to that change. Twilight is an emotional experience. Seeing the OC bring to life the characters is something of an emotional experience. Personally I’m not interested in interacting with the characters, but I love watching them interact among themselves and other fans. They act like a family, sibling teasing, parental monitoring at times. They are lively and fun and warm and caring to each other and the fans.

This group knows how to walk the line of being the character and being themselves when interacting with fans. Travis would never say some of the stupid thoughtless things that could pop out of Emmett’s mouth. Christilynn and Brynna are both a little standoffish in a way, but that is their character of Bella and Rosalie. Bella is shy, doesn’t want attention. Rosalie is fierce and protective and intimidating. Both actors show that side while also being open to talking with fans. Alan and Josh as Edward and Jasper do much the same. Travis is Emmett, fun and a big teddy bear with good hugs. Vee is Alice, very lively and enthusiastic and so much fun to watch and listen to her and Travis banter as siblings. Cay and Tori, for 2014, and the actors that portrayed Carlisle and Esme in 2013, are the calm around which the rest swirl. They are proper and stern and loving as Carlisle and Esme. Katie as Victoria is awesome. That stare will freeze anyone, never guess that Katie is an ER nurse. Those are the one I’ve had the most interaction or watched the most.

The two young ones I did not watch that much and only interacted once with them. Jacqueline as Bree managed that confused and fearful appearance. Samantha as Renesmee looked sweet and self confident. 

Stephenie Meyer Day 2013 was my introduction to Staci Chastain and the Olympic Coven. I don’t know much about the history before that. As a former con runner, I recognized Ms Chastain as the one in charge of getting and keeping the OC on time for their various appearances at SMD and being the one that made the arrangements for those appearances. There were some opportunities to talk with her that first year and off and on since then. She has done a marvelous job of gathering the cast members and associated staff for hair, makeup, and individual handlers; then working with some businesses in Forks to arrange appearances of the OC. They act like they’ve been together for longer than they have, especially with the new arrivals in 2014.

Some say that the cosplayers distract from the author and book celebration at Forks Washington. I think for most even if they don’t interact with the cast, the actors add to the experience of visiting any Twilight Saga site, be it Forks, St Helens, Portland area, or Vancouver BC area. They can’t move at vampire speed and they do need to eat human food, but seeing them together in the locations mentioned in the books adds a touch of magic.

I’ve worked at some media cons in the past and I’ve been to a lot of events with historical reenactors. I have not seen a group do such a wonderful consistent job at portraying the characters while also interacting with fans. They have brought a touch of magic to my life.

While this post is about the Olympic Coven, I cannot fail to mention that there were some other serious cosplayers that added to the magic at SMD 2014 and at CWE 2015. They are included in the list at bottom.

The future of the Olympic Coven is kind of up in the air currently. I am thankful I was able to attend the Cullens’ Winter Escape as that may be their last appearance together. I hope not. More people should have the opportunity of seeing them in action. A big Thank You to the cast for all your work, for giving up time from your life to entertain us, for money out of own pocket to be at these events, for that touch of magic.

Olympic Coven cast for SMD 2014 and * CWE 2015
*Alice Cullen – Vee Elle, Facebook – Vee Elle as Alice Cullen
*Bella Swan – Christilynn Swan, Facebook – Christilynn Swan
Bree Tanner – Jacqueline Brown, Facebook - Jacqueline as Bree new character for 2014
*Carlisle Cullen – Cay Percifield, Facebook – Cay Percifield as Carlisle Cullen
*Edward Cullen – Alan Mitchell, Facebook – Alan as Edward
*Emmett Cullen – Travis Shoaf, Facebook – Travis as Emmett
*Esme Cullen – Tori Giles, Facebook – Tori Giles as Esme Cullen
James – James Taylor
*Jasper Whitlock Hale – Josh Goff, Facebook – Josh Goff Productions
Renesmee Cullen – Samantha Baldwin, Facebook – Samantha as Nessie
*Rosalie Hale – Brynna Rowan, Facebook – Brynna as Rosalie or Doppelganger Cosplay
*Victoria – Katie Quinn Thornton, Facebook - Katie as Victoria

Other cos players
*New Moon Aro – Aro Maida
BD Alec – Robert Blair
*BD Aro – Shandra Mutchie, Facebook – Aro Romero Verispuci
BD Jane – Tiffany Lynn

CWE others:
Larkin Nash – Rene Swan, The Cullen Cars
Bryant Davis – Charlie Swan, Facebook – Russell Varon Cosplay


SMD 2013 cast had Jacob there and different Carlisle, Esme, and Rosalie.

Olympic Coven + visitors SMD2014

Olympic Coven + visitor CWE 2015



22 January 2015

Dream 10th Anniversary Celebration of Twilight


When it was announced that the Olympic Coven would be celebrating in St Helens Oregon in 2015, I got really excited. The actual film sites with the Olympic Coven would be a dream. Go to the film sites and reenact some scenes maybe and then maybe do some goofy things with it too. And what if they could get the director of Twilight movie Catherine Hardwicke there too. I’m dreaming a fangirl dream.

Add a layer in that dream that the city of Forks would get together and really support a celebration there the weekend before or after St Helens and get Stephenie Meyer to attend. Oh what a 10 year anniversary celebration that would be for the fans of the books and the movies.

Reports were that St Helens was working well with the Olympic Coven group and planning was proceeding in positive manner. Nothing was coming out of Forks for anything beyond a birthday cake celebration. Half of dream is better than none.

Then 30 December 2014 the dream is crushed. The St Helens plans have been sabotaged by petty and unprofessional actions from Forks Chamber of Commerce. Forks changed their plans and now want to throw a big celebration. They were unwilling to work with St Helens and the Olympic Coven to combine efforts on different weekends to make it a wonderful book and movie celebration. Stop and think, what that means to the fans and to the tourist dollars for St Helens and Forks and the surrounding area, it is beyond sad. It is tragic.

I am having a hard time dealing with the disappointment. I know my dream was a dream and not likely to happen, but it was a possibility. I do not trust the Forks Chamber of Commerce after their intentional sabotage of an event in a city four hours away. I do not believe the Forks Chamber of Commerce is really enthusiastic for the Stephenie Meyer Day celebration for the fans or as a tribute to Stephenie Meyer and Twilight. I do believe for the Forks Chamber of Commerce it is only about the money. They have been happy for the money brought into the area by the events Staci Chastain and the Olympic Coven have planned in the past, but have not shared that money with them.

There is added disappointment in the Twilight Forever event being planned in Gatlinburg Tn for August with the Olympic Coven. I wish they would use their time and energy and money in working with Forks to make that a better celebration. I can empathize with the East Coast fans liking a celebration closer to home for them and all of the OC members do live closer to Gatlinburg. I will miss them greatly in Forks. I want to be selfish and not share. I wish that event the best and hope I can be forgiven for wanting to be selfish. I will share information for that event, but not with much enthusiasm.

The Twilight Saga is an emotional experience. It has changed lives, mine included. I am disappointed in the unprofessional way the Forks Chamber of Commerce acted to sabotage the St Helens event. It is sad and tragic. There is time for my emotions to calm before SMD happens. It will not be the same without the Olympic Coven. I will miss them as the coven and the actors as friends.

It is very unlikely that I will be able to attend the August event. I am glad I had the opportunity of seeing most of the Olympic Coven one last time at the Cullens’ Winter Escape event and to thank them. They have given much pleasure in portraying the Cullen family as a family. Fun to watch them interacting as a family and with the nomads and Volturi guests. It has been a pleasure to talk with the actors as well. I wish all the best in their personal and professional lives. Be Safe. Live long and prosper. May the Force be with you. God bless you and yours. Take care.








31 December 2014

SMD/OC announcement 30 Dec 2014

Walking Away

Yesterday afternoon, 30 Dec 2014, Stephenie Meyer Day / Olympic Coven, SMD / OC, organizers posted a heartbreaking announcement that the event planned for St Helens Oregon September 2015 was cancelled and that the OC would not be appearing at the Forks SMD events. The announcement is here: https://www.facebook.com/StephenieMeyerDay/posts/800220880024510

From that announcement: “At the end of the day, we are enormous Twilight fans, and we cannot be part of an event and a culture that may cause us to resent the franchise and the fandom we love so dearly. In order to preserve our love for Twilight, we have decided to respectfully walk away. We have quietly endured our fair share of gossip, drama, and small town politics related to this event since 2011, and we have finally reached a point where this is just too much for us.

It is a sad that the St Helens event has been cancelled. I was looking forward to seeing the actual filming sites for Twilight with a group of fans and especially with the OC. It would have been nice for the OC to have done at least that one more event after Cullens’ Winter Escape in January at Gatlinburg TN.

That said, I understand and support their decision to walk away before the situation taints their feelings for the fans and for Twilight. In the past I was not as smart concerning a local con that I was involved with and that con experienced a similar situation.

Forks Chamber of Commerce will continue to have a SMD celebration. They do have their own coven, last I knew of just Bella and Alice. They have been having their own events these last two (2) years that I’ve attended. They have had their own web site and Facebook page for SMD. The FB page is Forks Stephenie Meyer Day / Bella’s Birthday Weekend. We can still gather there at that time. We can still have some fun times. We can still support SMD and Forks.

My initial reaction was sad and some tears, then I wanted to write not so polite letters to chamber of commerce for Forks and St Helens or to smack someone. Know that would not help the situation, but might feel a little better. ;-)

From the comments on various threads about this, the OC members seem to be open to other possibilities in the future. Not sure Staci and her assistants are willing to commit to anything right now. Personally I think we can state our support of other possibilities without pressuring them into something. Maybe Forever in Forks and SMD/OC could combine forces and bring something about? Maybe not ever year, but certain anniversaries? That could give time for planning and fundraising. It wouldn’t be running around the forest surrounding Forks, but a party to celebrate Twilight and have ‘family’ reunion. Chicago, Phoenix, and Jacksonville are the other major cities mentioned in the books. There are the places associated with Rosalie and Esme. Wonder what Ashland Wisconsin could offer? Or Rochester New York?

I want to thank all those involved with organizing the SMD/OC events and providing us with a touch of fantasy as we have celebrated Twilight. I wish the planners and organizers of SMD/OC and the members of the Olympic Coven the best with their personal and professional lives and all future endeavors. Let us move forward and remember we are celebrating Twilight and keep the Sparkle in our hearts to share with the world.  




30 October 2014

Halloween memories

There is only one costume I can remember. It was 1957 while we were living in Denver Colorado. I wanted to be an harem dancing girl with all the sheer veils. Remember we are in Denver. Mom made my dance recital costumes and I expected her to make this Halloween one. I do not remember why I wanted to be a harem dancing girl, just did. It took a few weeks, but she did finally convince me to be something more suitable to cold weather. We did have snow mid October, so it most likely would have been cold for Halloween. I do not remember what costume I wore. 

I remember the teen center parties dancing and haunted house while in Germany when I was 11 & 12 years old.

I remember handing out candy in North Dakota, 13-15 years old and in Florida 16-18 years old. No college Halloween memories.

At a couple of pharmacies we could dress up...I would be a Star Trek Next Generation medical officer or a mad chemist. I had gotten the medical blue top, some rank pips and communicator badge that I wore with some black slacks and black shoes I had. I had kept my lab coat from high school and college and it showed the wear and acid burn holes with some messed up hair and beaker I was the mad chemist.

I don't recall my parents ever dressing up to give out candy. I know I didn't when it was my job. Costumes are not my thing. I appreciate the effort people put into theirs be it original or film accurate. I'm looking forward to seeing pictures on Facebook from my friends that do cosplay. 

Happy Halloween everyone! Be safe for the kids and pets and have fun.


28 September 2014

Poem: Frame

Frame

By Abby Weyr
28 September 2014
Inspired by Taffrail Newly


A single frame of film
One moment caught in time
Many together
To make a life
In motion
Always moving forward
Until a break happens
Stalled life to fix
Before moving
Forward again.



25 September 2014

Poem: Holey Alone

Holey Alone
25 September 2014

Use to be just
holey sweats.
Then he left.
Now chest is holey too.
He said he loved me.
Yet he left me
Holey and alone.




A short poem about New Moon Bella.

20 September 2014

Review and comments about Stephenie Meyer Day 2014


I had a good time. Took pictures. Met some new people from faraway places. Ate too much and too well. There were some things that were not perfect. The last minute adjustments came off very well. Keeping in mind that the $150 charge was associated with the anniversary dinner, but really covered the whole weekend, I felt I got more than my money’s worth. The events were at different sites. The Olympic Coven, old and new members, and some well costumed attendees provided some good entertaining ‘scenes’. Overall rating A-.

The one problem that needs some creative thinking on is how to get last minute changes out to people. Not being in one location and people not attending all events and cell reception being questionable presents a problem. Twitter last year seemed to have left out too many people, or maybe it was just me. Facebook seemed to work better this year. Not everyone has a smart phone to check FB or Twitter on the go.

Another thing that needs some ideas about – ride and room sharing. There might be places where parking might be more limited than others, so carpooling might be a good idea. Someone may get to Forks via public transportation and need ride to the different locations. Some may need rides to / from SeaTac or train station or bus station or Seattle hotel – especially if last minute changes happen.

I’ve read through some of the comments and have to say I laughed out loud at some of the unreal expectations of some people. I’ve been attending and working on and managing science fiction conventions longer than a lot of the SMD attendees have been alive. Things go wrong. Sometimes you have a chance to fix before it is noticed. Sometimes you don’t. Vendors change things or prices or cancel. People crash special ticketed events so chairs and food run out. Blame those party crashers for enjoying food and space that you paid for and they did not. Blame those party crashers for the need of better security in the future for ticketed events.

Some comments sound like they are from a plant by the competition for Staci’s event. That should be a complement to Staci – they are afraid enough of her events’ success through hard work and effort that they have to plant someone in the messages to stir up things with nasty comments. Shame on them. They should work with Staci to present a multifaceted event, for visitors wanting an immersive experience with the Olympic Coven and those wanting more community orientated events and maybe some quiet gathering time for those wanting to sit and discuss the books and fan fiction and the movies.

Staci and the Olympic Coven had a variety of events at different prices or for free. As mentioned at the top the $150 dinner price was not just for the dinner, but for all the various events. Getting the use of a hall or space costs money. Food costs money. Getting the Olympic Coven to Forks, putting them in motel for the week and food all costs money. Buy items on the Redbubble account – Team T-shirts, cards, phone covers, etc. They will likely have to look for sponsors to help pay for the events in the future. Do not be upset if the T-Shirts start having sponsors’ names on them or if notices of sponsorships start appearing on web site or Facebook page. Get real people, it is not a sell-out, but a practical way to keep costs down for the fans.

Thank you, Staci Chastain and all the Olympic Coven members and fans that attended for a great event and a great weekend. Your work showed and is greatly appreciated. These words are barely sufficient to express my feelings of gratitude for your work.



22 March 2014

Creation and Evolution

Creation and Evolution
Written 17 March 2014

I watched the second episode of Cosmos: Space Time Adventure last night. I am amazed at the continued either / or on creation and evolution issue.

Why can’t it be creation and evolution?

I was a science major in high school and college. I have never seen the conflict between the two ‘sides’. My faith tells me we were created in the image of our Heavenly Father. He also created plants and animals and bacteria and virus, etc.

Did he create them exactly as they are now? No.

Once created evolution has been ongoing. Natural selection happened. Breeding by humans has happened. Mutations have happened. You could almost say that actually de-evolution happened first as everything was created perfect, then environment had an impact and things started to change. Look at the life spans as noted in the Bible how they gradually shortened from Adam and Eve’s nearly 1,000 years.  


To me nature is the handiwork of our Heavenly Father. The beauty. The simplicity. The complexity. All are evidence of our Heavenly Father creating everything and putting in place things to evolve thereafter. Creation and evolution at work together. 

26 January 2014

Poem: Balance

Balance
By Abby Weyr
26 January 2014

Reflect on and learn from the past
Look forward and plan for the future
While living in the present.
For we should know
How far we have come
How far we have to go
And where we are.


Picture taken at Rialto Beach, Washington on 16 September 2013.

The picture inspired the poem along with a recent picture/saying on Facebook. That one was about only looking forward. I disagree. My thoughts about it came together as the poem as I was going through the pictures from SMD and saw this one. To me it is a matter of balancing the three aspects of our life - past, future and present.